Wednesday, March 14, 2007
DAD....
My Beloved FATHER passed away on the 8th March 2007 at 8.30am...He left all of us by suprise especially my mum, me n my B...
On the evening of 7th Mar 2007 he was still allright, joking around with my son still..it all happen just immediately after he had his dinner and that was around 9+pm if i remember correctly...my mum just came from teaching my 2 couzins mengaji and my Dad was still eating his dinner...1 of my aunt was also here sending food to my dad as she knows my dad luv this dish...and since he's already eating, she told him to keep it for tomorrow and he said ok...
Immediately after he finishes his meal, we heard him vomitting in the toilet...my mum rushed to the toilet to see what happened...i can hear my mum telling my dad that maybe he ate too much, improper digestion which I also thought it is as it happened to him before...he kept vomitting and vomitting...after he stopped, my mum hold him tight and told him to go to their so she can apply ointment on his stomach and chest to relieve the pain...but Dad kept saying,"Sakit sakit, tak tahan." we kept telling him to lie down as the pain won't go away immediately right...then he vomitted again in the room, not enough time to rush to the toilet...I told him,"Pak, tahanla sikit..baring kejap lagi baikla tu." he kept saying,"telefon ambulance tak tahanla sakit." and because he is the type who really can't tahan sakit, me n my mum thought, give him 2 panadol extra to eat and he might be ok...after eating he said,"Perut bapak sakit antar pegi doctor." So i told my mum, i'll call a cab and bring him to the 24hrs clinic at Tampines as its already 10.30pm. So we told him to change his t-shirt and wear his pants but he said he can't coz his stomach is too painful...We were lucky my aunt is there to help us, so she accompanied my mum to the clinic while i waited at home to look after Fikri.
Mum told me they came back abt 12+am...and before my aunt leave, my Dad told her,"Edot, terima kasihla antar Abang pegi klinik, kau papah aku, terima kasih banyak-banyak. Kalau Abang mati hari ni atau esok, kau maafkan Abang ye."I couldn't take it when my mum told me this. How I wish my husband wasn't working that night so we are able to send him....
After my Aunt left, Mum told Dad to sleep but he can't, he said its still painful so my mum said,"Tahan sikitla, takkan makan terus baik." So he tried lying down.
At 6.15am on 8th March 2007, Mum woke him up to take his medicine again and he did...he even ask for more water as he's thirsty...after taking the medicine, Mum told him to go back to sleep and he did lie down..after that Mum came out of her room and so I asked her what is Dad doing, she said Dad is asleep after taking his medication so I said OK..Told Mum Fikri is already awake and ready to bathe for school. So i got ready for work and left at 7.15am..
After my morning briefing at 8.20am, I was getting ready my desk to start work when my B called my office..I thought thats really early coz he never call me so early especially when he's working on board the ship in JB..So i answered the phone happily but what he said shattered my heart...He said,"B Bapak da meninggal.." I was like,"Ah, Bapak siapa?" He answered,"Your DAD!." I don't know how to react and cried..He told me to call home and speak to Mum..i called home immediately to confirm with my Mum..I even told her to check again, who knows she mite have made a mistake..But she said,"Mak da check, Bapak da takde.."
So i told my boss and my colleague about it and they send me downstairs to get a cab..I was crying all the way in the cab..Couldn't believe that it just happened to me..My beloved DAD has passed away...
When I reached home, my Aunt who lived on the 5th floor is already there..I was lost, don't know what to do or who to call..without any siblings around, i really didn't know what to do..At that time my B was on the way back, just left JB..I was lucky my mum has 10 siblings and they really helped a lot...
Everything was settled and finally Bapak dikebumikan pada jam 2++pm..
My mum fainted downstairs after the bus left..she must be keeping it and not crying that much thats why she couldn't take it anymore...
Ya ALLAH, kau tempatkanla Bapa ku di kalangan orang-orang yg beriman..Kami semua redha kau lebih menyayangi dia..Amin..
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Farhana @| 5:33 PM
